20
Aug 11

Writing update

I’m sure you’ve all been dying for yet another writing update from me, so here it is!

The Frisky. Last week I published a piece in The Frisky called I’m Divorced, Get Over It, which is about how while I understand people’s sympathetic reactions to hearing I’m divorced and the reason why, I get sick of the pity, especially when it’s obvious, at least to me, that I’m in a good place now.

My Tiger Mom and Me. Remember the essay I was working on for that My Tiger Mom and Me contest/anthology? Well it won first place! Yay! The e-book anthology will be available for the Kindle soon.

Word stuff. Here’s my latest wordy post for work, Commonly Confused Words. In a nutshell: nonplussed, ironic, affect and effect, bemusing, and literally. Literally literally!

New York Press. It was announced this week that New York Press would be shutting down. I’m sad to see the paper go, but couldn’t help but laugh at editor-in-chief Jerry Portwood’s 52 Funny Things About the Death of the New York Press, especially number 12:

Susan Shapiro has to launch her own publication, titled “Sue’s News,” to publish all of her students’ first person humiliation essays.

Ha! So true. My very first personal essay, which I wrote in Sue’s class, was published in New York Press, after which a whole slew of my classmates got published too. Then last year I had a second piece published.

Rejections project. To remind you, this month I launched the 12 Months, 60 Rejections project. Last week I submitted an essay to a literary magazine, just under the wire. I thought I could use their online submission manager, but when I checked it at 4 PM, it was already closed for that reading period. Like a madwoman, I threw my essay in a Word doc, formatted it, printed it out, threw it in an envelope, and ran over to the post office, which luckily is one block away and stays open till six (I think). Whew, got it in just in time!

Before the month is out I hope to submit two more short essays. I handwrote a draft of one over the last couple of weeks, and today finally had a chance to type it up and see what kind of shape it was in. It sucks. Glorified blog post. About too many things. Tomorrow I hope to start again with a new angle.


13
Aug 11

Writing update: 12 Months, 60 Rejections

I’ve been working on a bunch of things lately (hence, the slackness on the blog) and as usual, they’re all due at the same time. I’ve got one assignment, one submission to a literary journal, and one to an online magazine. The assignment is in good shape (I think), thanks in part to YP and his sharp eye, but the other two are less, um, developed. In addition, I’ve been writing a lot for work as usual (this post on dog breeds is particularly fun).

Recently I read this article from poet Brett Elizabeth Jenkins about her project, “One Year, One Hundred Rejections,” the goal of which was “to garner one hundred rejecton letters within the course of one calendar year.”  This idea immediately appealed to me. I feel like I don’t submit as much as I could, and look for anything to motivate me.

I don’t think I’d be able to collect 100 rejections in a year. That would mean at least 8 submissions a month, and with longer form pieces (I’m assuming Brett submitted mostly poetry but I could be wrong), that would be virtually impossible, at least for me.  But maybe that’s because right now I don’t feel like I have a really good, polished piece that I could send to a bunch of places. Last year I did (An Old Man on The Frontier Loses His Horse), which I submitted to at least half a dozen places, resulting in a contest win.

Anyway, the arbitrary goal I’ll pick is 60, which means five submissions a month, starting this month. So far I have one from Sun Magazine. They accept previously published work so I was able to quickly submit a piece from The Nervous Breakdown which I’m particularly proud of. Standard form rejection. Oh well.

Obviously the goal isn’t to try to get rejected, but to submit pieces and pitches to a sufficient number of places that *might* add up to 60 rejections. And I know I could call it the Sixty Submissions Project (which kinda has a better ring to it), but rejections makes it seem more daring. Like, who cares, I’ll just take a chance and submit to this hoity-toity magazine since I’m “trying” to get rejections anyway!

So counting Sun and the two possible rejections I’m working on, that’s three. I also plan on writing and submitting another piece that’s due at the end of the month, that’s four. And maybe if I feel okay about the more literary piece I’m working on, I’ll submit it to a few other places before the month is out.

I’m gonna need a spreadsheet.


30
Jul 11

Writing news: The Frisky, wordy stuff

I had a piece published in The Frisky last week, Neither a Trophy Nor a Tiger, about battling Asian stereotypes, even the awesome ones like being a tiger wife, getting straight A’s, and being a ninja.

I’ve also been writing more for work lately. If you like word-nerdy stuff about language then you’ll want to check out my word-nerdy little articles. If you’re really into it, you can subscribe to my workplace’s blog feed.  The latest one is for Shark Week and is about shark etymologies, types, and sayings.

This past week I also spent a lot of time working on an essay for Hyperink’s My Tiger Mom and Me contest, which I heard about from Wyn.  I made myself cry when I wrote it! Of course that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s any good.

That’s it from here!


16
Jul 11

Internet Lovin’

So I joined Google PlusMy brother invited me so I said, “Sure, why not?”  Plus with all the buzz, I was curious about it.  Now?  Wah-wah-waaaah.  I’m not sure what to do with it, aside from reposting my tweets and/or FB statuses. Right now it seems like a pain to do so, and to build up my “circles.” But anyway, if you’re on Google plus, feel free to circle me, though I’m way more active on Twitter.

I also joined Goodreads.  This so far seems a lot more useful to me right now. It was super-easy to add my book, and there are some fun marketing options, like doing give-aways and uploading an eBook.  I also like obsessively adding everything I’ve read (though I’ve only just started).  If you’ve read my book and are on Goodreads, go give it a rating or review. Or if you just want to friend or fan me, please do!

I also wanted to thank some people who’ve mentioned Black Fish on their blogs. Fellow writer Totsy Mae gave me a very nice shout-out, entrepreneur Rebecca Cao gave me a mention, and last but not least, so did my cover designer, Eva Hamden at Fat Bunny Press!

Eva designs and prints her own line of lovely and elegant handmade letterpress cards. In addition, she does customized wedding packages (save the dates, invitations, place cards, programs, etc).  If you’re getting married or know someone who is, you should definitely check her out.

And while we’re talking social networking, remember I have a Facebook page set up for Black Fish.  If you haven’t already, go like it. It’s painless, I promise.


06
Jul 11

Writing news: TNB, Bellingham Review, Reminders

I may have mentioned most of these, but just in case you missed anything.

    I have a new piece, Sidewalk Tales, at The Nervous Breakdown (TNB).  For a little while, it was one of the Most Read pieces but not anymore. Ah, the fleetingness of internet popularity.

    TNB “doyenne” and all around awesome person Irene Zion got to pick some of her favorite pieces this week, and one was mine! Thanks Irene!

    My Bellingham Review essay is now available online! Go read it.

And two reminders:

    While the paperback of Wisdom Has a Voice, an anthology about mothers and daughters, isn’t available till October, the e-book and Kindle versions are available now. I contributed an essay about my grandmother, Puo-puo, who passed away last fall.

    Finally, check out these cute little dictionaries I edited.

That’s it for now!


03
Jul 11

The weekend thus far

Yesterday I was very blah for some reason.  Coffee didn’t even do its trick!  I ended up spending most of the day aimlessly surfing the internet, playing Words with Friends, and reading.  The only productive things I did were yoga, reading and commenting on a couple of Nervous Breakdown pieces, finally getting together a free memoir shipment I still owed, as well as a submission to a magazine that accepts previously published works.

Here are a couple more exciting highlights.

More crazy Chinese mom craziness

In the fall I’ll be participating in a couple of readings in conjunction with this anthology I’m in.  Exciting, right? So I shared the news with my mom during our call yesterday. But it wasn’t so easy.

Me: Remember that book I told you about? With my essay about Puo-puo.

Mom: Yes, yes.

[Thank God she remembers] Me: Well, the editor lives in Sonoma.

Mom: I don’t understand.

[Here we go] Me: You know what an editor is? The woman who put together the book. Well, she lives in the San Francisco area.

Mom, hesitatingly: Okay.

Me: Well, she arranged a couple of bookstore readings for those of us who also live in the Bay Area.

Mom: Okay.

Me: You know, a bookstore reading? We go to a bookstore and read from the book.

Mom: Okay.

Me: We go to a bookstore and read ALOUD from the book. To an audience. It’s like a speech, or a presentation. Except we’re just reading.

Mom: Oh! The whole book? That will take a long time.

Me [about to lose it]: No, Mom. We each get five minutes.

Mom: Oh. With a microphone?

Me: Why does that matter!

[At this point, MB comes in the room and wags his finger at me for being impatient with my mom]

Me: Yes, with a microphone.

Feeling bad, I called her back a few minutes later, and it turned out, my mother STILL didn’t get it.

Me: MB says I was too impatient with you.

Mom laughs: I never went to this kind of thing so I don’t know.

Me: I know, I know.

Mom: So you guys won’t go.

Me: Huh? Of course we’re going. I’m IN the reading, Mom! I’M one of the people doing the reading!

Mom: Oh! I thought you said the editor was.

Me: No, she’s just arranging it.

Mom: Oh! [Now she sounds excited.] That’s very good!

Yeesh.

Then I get this email from my dad:

Happy to know you’re gonna do a live presentation of your article.

First of all, since when does my father say “gonna”?  Secondly: sigh.

I know, I know, they’re both very cute and sweet, but – SIGH.

SPICY!

Early yesterday evening MB and I decided to take a walk to lower Haight and check out Rosamunde Sausage Grill.  He’s eaten there before and thought I would like it.  And I did.

I got the beer sausage and the chicken habanero, and FUCK were they spicy.  I expected them to be white person-spicy (ie, not), but they were killing me.  My nose was running, and while I tried to be paleo and not eat the bun, I just had to or else die of spiciness. (Plus it was tasty.)

We had a very nice walk too.  It was in the upper 50s, low 60s, and windy in some parts.  It’s crazy that it’s July, and we were wearing jeans and jackets.  Love Bay Area weather!


Today so far I’m feeling much more energetic.  The coffee is working!  My main project is to finish this next section of my novel.  Must do it!  It even takes precedence over working out.


25
Jun 11

More writing news

In addition to the shout-outs I mentioned earlier in the week, I got a lovely review from Wyn over at Everything Is Connected.

Wyn and I have “known” each other for several years. I think I found her blog randomly, and admired how active she was (and is!). From there I saw that she wrote for Metblogs, and looking for someplace to write and that would force me to do activities around the city, I started writing for Metblogs too.

I wrote there from January 2006 through February 2007 (though I’m still listed as an author, weird) before I, well, lost interest. But it was definitely fun and a great experience.

I think Wyn left her Metblog gig around the same time, if not sooner, and I’m glad we’ve stayed in touch ever since.

In other writing news, I’ve published a new piece at The Nervous Breakdown, about the lost things I’ve found on the sidewalk (hmm, that sounded a lot more exciting in my head).


21
Jun 11

Writing news: Black Fish Reviews + Wisdom Has A Voice

It’s a scorcher today in the Bay Area, which means it’s a dry 80 degrees.  (I’m spoiled.)  So I thought I’d bring you some hot writing news.

The reviews are in!

Ed Lin, author of Snakes Can’t Run, This is a Bust, and Waylaid, gave me and my book Black Fish a shout-out this week in Giant Robot magazine.  Woot!  It’s my first real review (beyond kids writing on Amazon that my YA novel was “fantastica!”).

My second real review came from Thomas Ott, who gave an honest, well-rounded, and ultimately positive take on my book.  I appreciate and encourage honesty, which is definitely NOT the same as anonymous internet trolls who say bad things to cause a ruckus and get some attention without revealing anything about themselves.  But I digress. . .

Wisdom Has a Voice on Kindle

Wisdom Has a Voice, an anthology of essays about mothers and daughters, is now available on the Kindle!  It includes my essay about my grandmother, Puo-puo.  The print version of the book will be available in October.

That’s it from here! I plan on spending the rest of this warm work-from-home day inside, doing yoga, eating, and writing. Could be worse.


19
Jun 11

Bellingham Review

I mentioned in another post that my essay that won a contest last year is now available.  I got my copy in the mail last week!

And there is such a nice quote from the judge of the contest:

Looks like the website isn’t yet updated.  Hopefully it will be soon.  In the meantime, you can buy a copy or subscribe.


11
Jun 11

Finally catching up

That was a long two weeks.

Work was quite busy, though in a good way.  I am getting a handle on striking a balance between trying to do a good job in my expanded role, and becoming completely obsessed and neglecting my own projects.  That being said, this weekend will be all about catching up with my own stuff, namely:

1) Work on my novel. I always save new versions of my writing with the date that I last worked on it, so I was disheartened to see the last time I worked on my novel was May 31.  My goal today is to finish this particular section, a flashback/background, so that tomorrow I can get into the real story more.  (I am of course being purposefully vague here, not ready to talk about the specifics of the novel, but happy to blab about the process.)

2) Write this blog post. My goal is to post twice a week. Yay, I met my goal!

3) Update outdated stuff on my website. In case you’re wondering, I am not still reading The Devil’s Rooming House.  I’ve read about three books since.  Also, the stuff on my home page needs to be refreshed, specifically The Bellingham Review!

The Spring 2011 issue is now available. You’ll find great prose and poetry, as well as the winners of the 2010 contests, including my essay, “An Old Man on the Frontier Loses His Horse,” first place winner of the Annie Dillard Award in Creative Nonfiction.

The website isn’t updated yet (they usually put one or two pieces in full on their site), but you can order or subscribe now.

4) Work out. Not sure this will happen.  The first three goals take priority, but at least I think I’ll be able to do yoga at home.